If he's super passive aggressive or he doesn't like confrontation, this could be his way of telling you that he doesn't want a serious relationship with you. and weve been together 3. we have a son. So making comments and getting feedback really helps me. Monogamy isnt a one-time choice for human beings; its an ongoing choice. Some people think that threats have to be physical in nature to be problematic. Now he puts extra hours at work and prefers to spend time with his friends. our relationship is so confusing. My husband doesn t like spending time with my family, but why? Real boyfriends take their girlfriends out on dates. Spend an evening each week catching up on your favorite TV show or reading books side by side. Its so frustrating and can make you feel really lonely. Gizfield, I had put on heaps of weight too after my children, I guess she thought she had the upper hand. This commitment keeps me here but I dont know what kind of godly marriage this is, when he contributes no energy or time to it. I dont think we should ever let ourselves fall into the boredom trap either, but I am so tired (as the betrayed spouse) of feeling like I need to become a one woman circus to keep the interest going. There has to be a shift in thinking and approach here. If hes unwilling to make any changes, you might have to accept that this is how things are and find ways to occupy your time when hes busy with other things. Required fields are marked *, My Husband Never Wants To Do Anything With Me: 10 Reasons Why and What to Do About It, on My Husband Never Wants To Do Anything With Me: 10 Reasons Why and What to Do About It, Why Husband Blames Me For Everything: The Truth Behind Relationship Arguments, 11 Signs of Selfish Husband and How to Deal With Him. Now he helps make the bed every morning or it doesnt get made. For many years I have silently said to myself (as my husband worked almost 80 hours/week and let vacation time go because he was too busy to take time off), I told myself to hang in there, itll work out at some point. Its my own sort of therapy to keep myself outta trouble. Hes preoccupied with other things. I realized that I was not bored because I was always giving to our marriage and familyshe was the taker which meant she was always waiting for something to be given to her or to happen for her. It may be kind of obscure sometimes but its there. The full 3 months have gone by and your dog has settled in. You are correct that i t does not excuse your cheating, but it does point out where your personal vulnerability was. I agree that, for me, its my commitment to God, first and foremost. I say. Friday may 31st will be divorce day. Can I ask how old you are? Need help with your relationship? Things have evened out quite a bit and we have some nice little teamwork going on. Sometimes I feel like we divorced while staying married. No way to win with this guy. And while that might sound easy enough, many of the common phrases we say in our daily lives can get in the way of achieving the goal of keeping an open dialogue between spouses. In that case, likely, hes just trying to better himself. In contrast my H is in the worst shape hes ever been and for the first time I see him slightly worried about how he compares to the men I must see at the gym. Its important to have hobbies and interests outside of your relationship. What do you do when your spouse doesnt want to spend any free time with you? If youre always demanding his attention, hell likely start to feel suffocated. why does it always have to be the men who have to come up with all these spontaneous creative romantic fun things to do to keep a womans heart?! It sucks. It makes me sick the lengths she went to, and I truly believe it was her manipulation, making him feel guilty for him being home with his family. 261K views, 8.6K likes, 1.4K loves, 409 comments, 347 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from ginaalopeez: Me r0bar0n mi celular!! The truth lies in the middle, where two selfish people made themselves look like all that and they were both stupid enough to think that someone who was willing to lie and deceive their spouse would magically be some honest, ethical person with THEM. Once you know the reason, you can work on a solution. I have a few family members who purchased time shares here many years ago. Leaving Her Alone One of the quickest ways to destroy your marriage is to leave your wife alone. Weve been married 42 years. Not much of a marriage, I know. If you want to close the gap, try making a regular date night where you can focus on each other without distractions. Yes, she says she feels remorse but she is still defensive about what she did. He often jokes about leaving his wife. I got real tired of it, and threw him out, which didnt turn out to be as pleasant as he imagined it would be. The excitement and stimulation came from the illicitness of what they were doing sneaking around on their spouses like teenagers. If you suspect this is the case, youll need to have a serious conversation about whats going on and how its affecting your relationship. And here are 9 ways you can escape awkward conversations . He still waits for my direction and Ive stopped doing all I did because he wont put any responsibility onto himself. It will always throw things twenty steps back. My husband is a type 2 diabetic (which is totally uncontrolled) and has hypertension, elevated cholesterol, as well as several other health issues. Doug, I hate men like that. His demeanour physically / the way he moves is gentle and measured. Its his wifes fault for not meeting her husbands needs. I feel like I need to turn into a stepford wife. Often, men show their love through acts of service instead of words. What about commitment as a daily choice? We can only imagine how his own eyes and mind were deceiving him. But some expectations. So, if your husband is always working on projects around the house or taking care of the kids, he may be trying to show you how much he cares. You don't get a free pass. Selfish people are extremely immersed in themselves. In this case, try giving him some space and see if that encourages him to come to you more. Well, my court date for Friday was cancelled because the ex couldnt make it. I have often thought about why I dragged my feet too. 3. Were here to show you the right way to survive infidelity so that your marriage doesnt become some sort of statistic. Sometimes, your spouse needs some space and thats perfectly normal. Problem is, is that when I do, he texts or calls me frequently asking when Ill be home. He shops with me for groceries or they dont get bought. What to do if my husband doesn t like spending time with my family? If you want things to change, stop enabling it (I really suggest just breaking up because you are trying to change something that has always been there) start setting some boundaries that You can't live like this and that things need to change cuz you are at the end of your rope (You should have just never gotten in a relationship or even married this man). I couldnt understand her whole bored thing. It ticks me off because I loved and supported him and he knew it. My son is starting his divorce proceedings this week and he has a 3 year old son. But I know one thing I wont go through this again kids or not Im better than that and dont deserve it. And so, the million-dollar question isWhat inspires us to choose to be (and stay) monogamous? But living with a depressed person takes the life out of you. I do everything outside the home with friends, nothing with him. Discover the 10 Most Important Lessons about Surviving Infidelity, Most of the Time My Husband Doesnt Want to do Sh*t, No Such Thing As TMI The Importance of Full Disclosure After You Have Had an Affair, Affair Recovery Moving On After Infidelity, Taking Inventory: A New Approach to the New Year & A Betrayed Spouses Bill of Rights, Follow our journey as we save our marriage after an emotional affair, Terms of Service/Privacy Policy/Affiliate Disclosure. Absolutely 100%. We saw therapists through the years but nothing changed. During a dinner with Lala and the "You're Gonna Love Me" podcast host, 36, Raquel admitted that she liked Tom, 40, but . In other words, I'm a good person! Of course, this isnt to say that you should never come first. He has not worked in almost a year because it has gotten worse. he says he knows I am fighting for us but he also knows me and I am just getting ready for when we divorce. Compliment him on things he does well, and express gratitude for you. If anything, it is a great opportunity to spend quality time with single friends. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here). The lack of confidence was not about my career or who I was outside of our marriage. We have two very young kids and both work high-pressure, full-time jobs. What to do when my husband never wants to do anything with me during this period? My h and I were the same, it was my h brokenness stress and depression, midlife crsis (he had these dreams of retiring at 40) too, we hadnt argued, I was loving, faithful and there for him, there was really no reason for this to happen to us. He has outgrown you or never cared in the first place or he is just self absorbed and a loner. It's like having a toddler. You never know, once your husband sees what a great time you are having. Empty nest for all of us is just around the corner. Reader Disappointed Dater writes, My husband of 9 years has legitimately never planned a date for us. At the same time, dont neglect your own needs. But after she left, he was angry. Peace of trash she is, I see even more with that comment she made how she wanted my children, as well as my h, I cam only imagine the bad things she told my h to get him on her side with that idea, having him think I was a terrible mother as well as wife. ALL advice given must be good, ethical advice. Over time I discovered that her POSOM didnt spend a dime on herexcept for cheap hotel rooms. Some of the big realizations I have had in this post affair phase are: a. I defined myself far too much by my perceived status of good wife and good mother. For example, if you dont share his love for football, he may feel like it would be a waste of time. Linda claims it was the other two women that were doing all of the complaining (uh, huh) and the core complaints were that their husbands never wanted to do anything and were basically boring stick-in-the-muds. He never raises his voice. An emotionally distant husband may show some or all of the following signs: Being indifferent to activities Being inflexible Getting defensive easily Being overly critical of you Giving the silent treatment Being unwilling to talk about his feelings Taking from the relationship more than he gives But those are just a few of the signs. Pisses me off too. And honestly I have done that at times. They go into a mode of I am such a good person, it must be YOUR fault that I did such an awful thing. Anonymous. She was not invested like I was. 21 [S4A] Feminize Me and Show Me Why I Should Never Go Back (Dahlonega, GA) 1 / 4. Remember what the marriage vows say? You words ring true, I have read it so many times in the hundreds of relationship books, when a person invests in a relationship the relationship is important to them and will do everything to preserve it. The only activity I can get him to do is sit and eat at restaurants. Originally Published: Dec. 27, 2015. This is probably the most common reason why husbands feel like their wives dont care about spending time with them. "Love and affection should be evident not only to you, but . And so, the million-dollar question isWhat inspires us to choose to be (and stay) monogamous? Just a little! Its all about him and hes still in control! I hope its not too late. You might feel like youre not good enough or that hes finding someone else to replace you. When your partner has your back, they'll be able to say those three important words sincerely and out loud in front of other people. Weve been in your shoes and are in a unique position to put all of our experiences both good and bad, successes and failures and use them to help lead you out of the pain and into a better place. If I had listened to my gut and gone with my instinct, I could have stopped this all much much sooner. he said if she was going to be such a jerk, she didnt need to come over here, or he didnt need to ever be around her, blah blah blah. I found a good website on CPTSD, called Strength to Heal, I think. While your situation isnt unique, it is nevertheless not typical. Then I feel hurt when he doesnt. Oh bless you it really does sound very similar.. to the poster who suggested getting others involved, without going into too much detail I did just that. She does not know our situation. So Im so happy for you that you have your children. I do absolutley everything on my own. I totally agree, Decimated. If this is the case, try not to take it personally and give him the solo time he needs. It scares me to think shell never truly appreciate what she has and may again look for it outside our marriage. After a very entertaining and tasty dinner at a casual restaurant, we went outside to where a jazz concert was going on. You have your sons hearts, love, support, and respect. In a vacation environment totally devoid of any stress, I couldn't stand to be in my husband's company. It can take months for them to grasp the idea that they and they alone are responsible for the choices they made and the ensuing crap storm that resulted. The stupid tart would call him every time he saw her and say are you ok, dont let your wife get to you, this is how you talk to her. He helps make meals or we dont eat. He will not permit me to go out with friends or anywhere even the grocery store without his being with me. Any ideas? He is at the point where it scares him to think of what he could have lost. It is possible your husband could be having a physical, sexual affair with another woman or possibly an emotional. My husband I really never really used to go anywhere much due to work so we never really thought a time share would benefit us. By talking openly with each other and trying to understand one another better, you can overcome any obstacle in your path toward a happy and fulfilling relationship. even if it was my high school boyfriend that I felt was my true love at the time? Eg, unfortunately with my h cousin it, she thought it was and when it looked like she could use it she threw herself at him like a bitch on heat. I loved that. One thing that has changed a bit is that she no longer wants to have that role so much any more. Five Lifestyle Rituals to Inspire Monogamy. IMHO. While you may feel like youre being neglected, its important to remember that this period wont last forever. But when I am anywhere in public, if there are 10 people, at least 6 or 8 of them will be as fat or fatter. I am tired of the many years of being his personal assistant, director, PR person, party planner, date night organizer, relational health coach, spiritual leader and the bad guy parent. But if you strongly believe: My husband doesn t like spending time with my family and me, it might not be personal. I wonder at times how my h felt when he looked at himself in the mirror while his eyes mind was battling with his heart and soul. Without getting into too much of the details and background, it is apparent to us that they have fallen into a serious marital trap. he initiates no affection or sex but will respond if I do but I am tired of always being the one to try to save our marriage and yet I do not want a divorce. 3. It drives me totally nuts. It was his brokenness and going into self-destruct mode. Over the years, she had torn down my self esteempiece by piece. He's Totally Stopped Texting You Back. Unique Proposal Ideas To Make Your Partner Say Yes, 21 Signs the Universe Wants You to Be With Someone, What to Do When a Guy Ghosts You: Obvious Red Flag Explained. I feel none of it was appreciated and he has a sense of entitlement. This is not an all-inclusive list. He is always focused on himself. Rewind 10 years ago and I was a single 25-year-old freshly off finishing grad school at NYU who was moving to start a new chapter and a new job in Austin. A selfish husband will not care about your feelings. And as the years go by and more time and effort is devoted to raising and nurturing kids and taking care of all of lifes other issues, this weakness, along with adventure and passion, is often overlooked. The glue as our therapist says. Gradually, he's changed, and his hygiene has gotten worse and worse. If she only knew. I need to get that back, John and chiff, I need to start feeling good about myself again. Saturday night we met up with two other couples who we consider to be some of our closest friends. John, I felt exactly the same as you after I found out bout my XWWs almost 2 year affair. I work full time and my husband has been retired for 10 years. It's always healthy for the dad to bond with baby, have skin time, even if the baby is fussy. If you two never go out anywhere together, then I would say that he's using you for sex (or hopes to soon). It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. My other half knows this, but still, does not take any of the responsibility on. For ME, the absolute foundation of monogamy is my commitment to that very principle. How profound. Im in the best shape of my life and I blame the dirtbag she affaired with for that, not that hes better looking than me by any means, but the second I picture his face and dream about ripping him limb from limb my workouts get very intense. Unless I wanted to peruse thing it would have cost me between 15,000-20,000. or situations/content involving minors, Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. On the other hand, Linda read some book ( I think by Suzanne Somers) that claimed much of the fuddy-duddyness in men stems from a lack of testosterone. Don't put others before your husband. You need to stop fearing an argument, You need to communicate the issues that are going on and ask him why he thinks using depression to not do things you don't want to do. What should I do if my husband never wants to do anything with me? Friends disappear and you can't go anywhere. What this means for me is If he wants to pick an argument or indulge in another round of self pity, I dont have to join in. All through his fog. I have one on my free resource page. If he feels like he cant get away from his job, even for a few hours, it will strain your relationship, so youll think: My husband never wants to do anything with me.. On the contrary, everyone needs quality time with their loved ones. Blah blah blah. More lies to manipulate him, each time something would backfire. Me too. Doug, Linda, anyone elseone topic I would love to see discussed: how do you handle ti when the topic of affairs comes up in discussion with friends, etc. No matter how much our friends love each other and they do they are not immune to boredom. The judge stated that nobody wins in a divorce. Your email address will not be published. Not a legacy to be proud of. e. just because someone throws something down it doesnt mean you have to pick it up. I guess if Ive found any silver lining in my situation it has been establishing a value of self worth that cannot be skewed by anyone and as was said before no more blind faith. And that goes right to the heart of why so very few people actually DO leave. John, its one of the hardest things to go through, I highly doubt I could go through it again. Rachel, I am so sad that this is the path you have been forced to walk. If he does something differently, it does not mean that it's wrong. So, one of the classic signs of a selfish husband is he holds himself in high regard and has a high self-esteem, to the point of being full of himself. The real reason is that the person reached a point where they became so selfish that this activity became ok in their own eyes. Like go to the grocery store, go to the pool, go to sport practice, go anywhere! He has let his hair grow long and messy and refuses to get a haircut. At least mine was, for a while. They just werent invested, and I believe it has to do with how they felt about themselves at the time. It may seem that way, Rachel, but from what youve said he really isnt in control. 2 Answers - ( Newest, 16 November 2009) A female age 30-35, anonymous writes: i am 19years old and my husband is 20 and this feb 14th 2010 we will be married for 2 years. Exercise grace, this is exactly the kind of thing I was trying to get through to Eyes Opened about. Two years ago he was an ER physician, today he spent 10 minutes trying to figure out how to open the refrigerator. I want him to do SOMETHING, but hes happy with being on his laptop or watching the depressing news all day long. You might not see it, but your relatives can sometimes be quite overwhelming, especially if theyre always around. What to do if my husband never wants to do anything with me? Everyone makes mistakes, and your husband is no exception. Veiled or overt threats, against you or them. Not one bit. And really peace for your ex too. One of the main signs of a disrespectful husband is when he never ever asks your opinion on anything. Thankfully, my h told her, there is no way I will take the children away from their mother. Most husbands work outside the home to provide for the family. If your husband is cheating on you, its crucial to confront him and figure out what to do next. It is so easy to make our lives about our kids. Good advise eg. His apathy is excruciating and I feel myself just shriveling up and blowing away in the wind. EG, I was indeed joking as she playing the role of advisor, not basher. Best wishes Rachelyou have won what is most important to you!!! Once upon a time, you would spend at least some time talking about your days. Make sure to schedule some me time into your week to stay sane and avoid resentment. Im doing everything I can to bring the romance and passion back to our marriage while she acts miserable every day. At the same time, ask for them to tell you their fears or uncertainties and LISTEN. Hopefully, those of you who are further along and are in the marriage rebuilding and strengthening phase can find this helpful. Doug, I know you were joking but knowing Linda and what you guys have learned through hard experience, I am willing to bet she did very, very little husband bashing. Excellent point Doug. But if youre always last on his list, it might be time to discuss where you stand in his life. Perhaps in the UK or somewhere you have been before. When it comes to a conclusion my husband doesn t want to spend time with me, an affair is one of the most common reasons. My husband doesn t want to spend time with me; it hurts. That obviously will take a while. d. regardless of what others choose, I can still choose to be a happy person. If you have any questions, please send us a modmail. I stayed home with the kids, took care of all the household stuff, cooking cleaning etc. He watches TV all day long and plays computer games on his phone. And if your husband has told you outright that hes no longer attracted to you, its time for a serious conversation. I believe that is why most BS wouldnt even think about entering an affair, really who had the time and energy. I even take our children to the seaside on my own. After the girls were born, our social life was done as a family (due to lack of babysitters). First, try taking a more proactive approach by planning fun activities that you can do together. Dear The HPV Question, First, I want to make sure you still have HPV. You can also subscribe without commenting. Sometimes, codependent people may end up in. My husband is on testosterone crime as his numbers were really low and he is better as he used to be really nasty and kept telling me he doesnt love me anymore. " If dat new guy don't stop follin wit ma girl, ahm gon put a gree gree on him ." I am 62 and he is 70, maybe its his age. She was not invested like I was. He has no ideas, no desire to do simple fun or actively engage with me on anything. When approaching your husband about this, don't criticize or apportion blame as this can put the other person on . Now he only changes underwear and showers once a week. That is exactly what my husband did and he admits it. While I used to assume that he valued our time together as much as I did, and assume that he wanted to do things together, I no longer do. It was his stress and depression and need for escape. Take care. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules. Stacy Taniguchi grew up as a Buddhist in Hawaii and joined the Church so that he could marry his girlfriend who was a Latter-day Saint. , likely, hes just trying to get through to eyes Opened.... 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